No Contact

Not talking to Bill has been hard, but as time passes it becomes just how things are. Last week he was down in my office area talking with a coworker. I hoped he'd stop by my desk and say 'hi'. What he did do was wave.

I ignored him.

Why? He hurt me a ton, and if he wants to rebuild our friendship I need much more than a wave to make me feel more generous towards him.

Teach asked me if I'd 'take him back' if he wanted. I told her that it would take a whole lot more than I think he's willing to put in. And, by the time he puts in enough effort for me to notice and believe that his efforts are genuine he'll probably have just given up.

So, There we are.